haha.. went for youth seminar today conducted by my church pastor..
the topic was "How to Annoy Your Parents"
hah obviously the church wun teach us bad things.
It was on quarrels in the family, you can either be the solution or the problem
1. You can tear down and lose or you can build up and win with your words
2. You can be ungrateful and lose, or be thankful and win.
3. You can be bitter and lose or you can forgive and win.
4. You can do this on our own and lose or you can ask God for wisdom and win.

"Stop being bitter or angry or mad. Quarrelling, harsh words and dislike of others should have no place in your lives. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God has forgiven you because you belong to Christ." Ephesians 4:31-32

"When you talk, do not say harmful things. But say what people need--words that will help others become stronger. Then what you say will help those who listen to you" Ephesians 4:29

"Careless words stab like a sword. But wise words bring healing." Proverbs 12:18

"Anyone who won't care for his own relatives when they need help, especially those living in his own family, has no right to say he is a Christian. Such a person is worse than the person that does not believe in God." - 1 Timothy 5:8